Need Help Dont know what to do!!!!!!

[musicman2229]

Imo, you should not tell your wife. I know that's a little decisive and strongly worded for a touchy subject like this, but frankly your happiness is secondary in this situation. You have a kid. I'm assuming that you are both good parents who provide for and love their son. If this is the case, then divorce is not going to be good for him. If you work seven nights a week, then clearly the money isn't exactly pouring in. Divorce, even with child support, joint custody, etc., will cost a lot of money, which could be going to support your son. And this is only the financial aspect. Never mind that your son would grow up without his parents on speaking terms. Two of my best friends growing up both had separated parents, and I wouldn't wish what they went through on my worst enemy. Almost everybody is a little gay. Do some reading on the Kinsey scale. This is NOT worth jeopardizing your marriage and burdening your son. At three years old, he doesn't deserve this.