Need Help Dont know what to do!!!!!!

[TommyinKY]

I'd have to agree with Bowyn Aerrow on this. You have a child and a wife. Your wife was looking for a faithful loving relationship. Your son will need to have a safe stable place to grow up. In the end it is really up to you whether you come out to your family. It's also up to you whether you have further same sex encounters while you remain married.

Having said that, you have a duty now. You agreed to a commitment to your spouse and have a responsibility to protect your son. Even if you choose to end your marriage these are things you should remain committed to. They will need you no matter how you conduct your life from here on out.

Marriage is essentially the oath that you will you will provide for the happiness, security, and well being of your spouse and your family. It is the same whether you are have a same sex marriage or a conventional marriage. You have a right to seek happiness for yourself but you also have a responsibility to others.

Not sure if that helps any it is a very tough situation. This is something you should take your time figuring out and until you do i would suggest that you refrain from further sexual encounters outside of your marriage.