Need Help Dont know what to do!!!!!!

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that sounds like a profond incedent in your life and i understand the feelings overwhelming your sences but i must agree wwith most of the others here . think about how close you are to your wife have you a real close and open relationship so you are like totsly together
or do you live seperate liveis by that i mean totaly shareing feelings together not just plans for future but every day fustrations soyou can better work as a team. any way if you do have a good relationship
then you first decited which is more important to you to keep your life you commited to because you did not really know yourself
there are many that haave wives but they step out and have this part of there life seperate and go on but like the others say you did sgin up for life but it is hard since this event hhas made the great impact it has you probaly will not be able to restrain your self totaly so you should come cleanwith the wife as soon as you can handel it
personaly i have been in situation where i would give my lover to another or lots of others it that wouldbe what it took to make them happy since that was my gole inlife to make my lover happy if she truely loves you it will work out all right . of corse it depens on her attatudes she has toward glbt community you can assecs these facts
for your self.