How are you today?

[Nick9]

Hi Matty,

what about if you read a post like this:

Hi,
I need your advice, I really don't know what to do. I have this friend, let's call him M. He is my best friend, he always has been.
Some time ago he told me he was leaving me and going abroad. I was devastated. I mean we had so many plans together.
I'd tried to talk him out of it, but he was persistent. I couldn't imagine my days without him and being all alone. I had found this girl, she is nice, but I feel really bad because from then on M. is pulling away. I really don't understand it.
The last night before he left was beautiful.
But the longer he is there the stranger he is. I used to invite him to spent time with me and my gf, but he refused. I used to tell him what we did with my gf, but he always acted strange, like I was hurting him, so I stopped. I am really not sure how to talk to him anymore. It seems that what ever I say, I am hurting him.
What should I do?

You know Matty, I can be totally wrong. Just consider it