How are you today?

[archubbycub]

hey hallo everyone
im really newbie around here,and im confuse with my feelin.btw how did u knew that u were gay? i mean whos make that thing so clear for u?
thanks alot xD
have a great day y'all xD

I think that's something different for everyone, depending upon the environment and structure you grew up in. Please don't hear me wrong, I'm not making an argument for nature vs. nurture, but I know in my own experience, I first had the "feelings" when I was 14. But given where I live (deep South, Bible Belt of America) and the family structure I had ( not enough room on this entire forum to go through all of that) I convinced myself that I was "just confused" and that it was something that would go away once I grew up and got married and had kids. Well I did grow up (well got older anyway :tongue: ) and got married and had kids, but those feelings never went away. Now I've come to terms with who I truly am, and dealing with the fact that I repressed those feelings and have others that I deeply care for that are paying for it as well. Hope that all made sense! LOL