08-23-2012, 04:25 PM
I personally would not change a thing...I am extremely superstitious about it because I beleive the journey is about accepting ourselves for who and what we are instead of changing ourselves....and that would be my advice to you...BUT...
The older you get the more you learn (hopefully:biggrin
...and I realized along the way that some people NEED to change things about themselves for one reason or another and it is simply not my place to judge them or impose my own beliefs or superstitions on them.
Case in point...I love my age and am proud of it. I wouldn't'; change any of my wrinkles or (GAG):eek: use any hair products for men...if Mother Nature and my genes have deemed I be bald ...I will happily be bald. I have a friend though who is nearly my polar opposite and thinks she has to change everything and so the first time she had plastic surgery to her face I was horrified...and she called me over to have a look and f*ck me if her face didn't look exactly the same to me (thankfully I kept my mouth shut...not saying what I really think is a constant struggle for me)...
..I didn't notice anything EXCEPT I saw that she was glowing.,.and at that moment I DID see the change and I learned that maybe some people need to change in order to feel better about themselves and who am I or anyone else to judge?
So do wait a few more years before you make any decisions...really think about it...and hopefully you will make the decision that is right for you. I dont think hair is bad at all and I would choose to accept it but I am not you and in the end you have to be true to yourself and not anyone else. Good luck to you!
The older you get the more you learn (hopefully:biggrin
...and I realized along the way that some people NEED to change things about themselves for one reason or another and it is simply not my place to judge them or impose my own beliefs or superstitions on them. Case in point...I love my age and am proud of it. I wouldn't'; change any of my wrinkles or (GAG):eek: use any hair products for men...if Mother Nature and my genes have deemed I be bald ...I will happily be bald. I have a friend though who is nearly my polar opposite and thinks she has to change everything and so the first time she had plastic surgery to her face I was horrified...and she called me over to have a look and f*ck me if her face didn't look exactly the same to me (thankfully I kept my mouth shut...not saying what I really think is a constant struggle for me)...
..I didn't notice anything EXCEPT I saw that she was glowing.,.and at that moment I DID see the change and I learned that maybe some people need to change in order to feel better about themselves and who am I or anyone else to judge?
So do wait a few more years before you make any decisions...really think about it...and hopefully you will make the decision that is right for you. I dont think hair is bad at all and I would choose to accept it but I am not you and in the end you have to be true to yourself and not anyone else. Good luck to you!
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