08-24-2012, 06:05 PM
Same here BigCub, to both of my EX parents. They chose to legally disown me when I came out and, ask that I change my surname. I did so, as far as I'm concerned I have no parents.
Even when I did, I had no relationship with them beyond waiting for the next excuse they'd find to belt me, paddle me, lock me in the "prayer closet" or worse.
None of it matters now, sure I have to deal with issues because of what they did but, I'm doing well, down to just a few triggers and, living as close to my dream life as is realistically possible so, all in all, my parents were good for one thing, combining the egg and the sperm that put me here.
Even when I did, I had no relationship with them beyond waiting for the next excuse they'd find to belt me, paddle me, lock me in the "prayer closet" or worse.
None of it matters now, sure I have to deal with issues because of what they did but, I'm doing well, down to just a few triggers and, living as close to my dream life as is realistically possible so, all in all, my parents were good for one thing, combining the egg and the sperm that put me here.