09-04-2012, 02:51 AM
Coming from a little untidy person who is perfectly capable of being tidy I would be so sad if a relationship ended because of my untidy habits. I must say this is were communication comes in to play. I think if it's an area where things are shared for example kitchen, living area, etc. this could start an argument. However if it's more personal like a personal closet or private office it's probably not worth the argument. There are solutions to fix some untidiness like cleaning periodically or having the house cleaned. Sure we all get a little busy at times and dust accumulates or papers pile up. I personally feel that leaving dishes for someone else to clean or just dropping clothes anywhere is not love either.