09-05-2012, 02:57 PM
Zet Wrote:Heh I'm just tired of feeling unwanted. He is basically doing everything he can to make you feel unwelcome, and moving in to my father doesn't solve the problem. I love my father but I really dislike living with him, it always feels like being interrogated.... "So what have you done today then, nothing as usual?", "Why am I not surprised...", "You know I was 17 when I moved out for the first time, when will you start your life on your own?".
Zet, I'm not in a position to give you an advice as I'm not walking in your shoes. I neither know how you feel nor your situation.
But from your description, is it possible to accept his 'challenge'? Outdo him and his expectation. You don't just outdo and accept the challenge to prove he's wrong. You also outdo and accept the challenge to challenge yourself in a positive light.
Stay strong, Zet.