09-12-2012, 03:10 AM
thanks Jay, I asked the question because my aunt told me that my grandmother should be my top priority:confused: but I always thought you put yourself first. actually most of the older people in my family thought I was going to live here forever to take care of my grandmother but she's not my responsibility, she can still take care of herself and its screwed up to just throw her on me. its their own freakin mother.