09-13-2012, 10:47 PM
Personally, if I were in your dad's position, I'd want you to tell me. It'd make me feel more like you trusted me enough to do so. For that reason, If I was in your position I'd want to tell my dad personally as well. I don't think I'd like the suspense knowing that he knows, and not knowing how he feels about it. At least if you tell him face to face you can see all the emotion play out in front of you. Get a better understanding. That's just from my perspective though.
I think if you can tell him personally, that would be the best. Having said that, if you would rather your mum break it to him gently, then that is also fine. You can perhaps get your mum to drop hints? that way your mum can help you decide if it were be best for her to break it to him, or for you to do so. Though that might just gave it away instantly. I liked the option above of maybe telling him personally but having your mum their for moral support.
Anyway, hope this helps good luck!
I think if you can tell him personally, that would be the best. Having said that, if you would rather your mum break it to him gently, then that is also fine. You can perhaps get your mum to drop hints? that way your mum can help you decide if it were be best for her to break it to him, or for you to do so. Though that might just gave it away instantly. I liked the option above of maybe telling him personally but having your mum their for moral support.
Anyway, hope this helps good luck!