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Sounds good, but my caution flag is still up on this one, Soccer.

I don't know exactly what he said, how he explained the hook up site and all but I can imagine. Something along the lines of "To see the videos because you don't always want to have sex as much as I do, and it's quicker if I watch porn. I'ts free if I'm a member of the site. I would never hook up with anyone from there, the site just sends me emails because other guys like my profile. I just delete them, don't even read them."

About right? Watch it, that's pretty much the typical lies someone will tell you if they are in fact hooking up via a website.

Now the "Oh, I'd have asked you to join the club but, I know you don't like socializing." Sounds too much like him trying to cover his ass after the fact that he didn't want you there because he couldn't play single or open relationship if you were there.

I might be wrong, but, if I were you I wouldn't put the blinders back on, and I'd be very aware of anything that seemed "off" and, confront him if you have any suspicions. Also SAFE ONLY and get tested every 3 months BOTH of you.