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[soccerplayer133]

well he doesn't have messages on them, he doesn't open emails, he was a virgin when i met him, and thats just what he's been used to. I told him if he keeps going, his hormones are going to get attached to the porn and when the real thing happens, it won't work for him because he is used to the porn. and that really got him thinking. He did unsubscribe to the ones he was paying for and he let me look through everything. he didn't give me those excuses. and granted, he did tell me to join some club and i said i didn't want to because i don't like meeting new people. i told him to be honest with everything he told me and he did because the things he told me, he wouldn't have otherwise. Him opening up and telling me made me trust him more than i did. like i said, you guys helped me a lot to be able to confront him and gain some more trust. I will still pay attention to what he is doing and "keep my blinders off" as you said. But like you guys told me, what is a relationship without trust? so i still have to trust him that he will do what he says.