How are you today?

[Jay]

Yesterday, I spent most of my time in the gym talking to my personal trainer. We sat down together to discuss about my meal plan etc. We were later joined by few other members.

Topic drifted to bodybuilding and Mr. Olympia. One of the gym members stated that one of the 2013's contestants did a gay for pay.

So the subject shifted to that bodybuilder and also homosexuality.

My personal trainer and another member stated that they were physically harassed by two male perverts. My trainer was participating in a bodybuilding competition at the time. A guy grabbed his butt etc. when he was peeing in a rest room. So my trainer grabbed his neck and became a Hulk. The pervert guy then ran out like a headless chicken.

I wasn't comfortable when they discussed about gay subject. I think my trainer noticed it.

He then specifically looked at me and went, "I have nothing against gays. I have gay friends too. It's just people need to know that there is a line not to be crossed. Everyone should be respectful."

I didn't tell him that I'm gay. I can't be that obvious. .

But anyway whilst my trainer is a very good looking guy, I only see him as my personal trainer, teacher and a friend. A big brother to an extent.