where have you found your lover?

[Marc]

Hi mate.
I know how you feel, I don't do the sleeping around thing either.
I think in general a lot of gays online are just looking for sex.

BUT there are other guys, like myself, who aren't looking for sex, just passing the time, and looking to make new friends.

I have just (a few months ago) split with a guy after living with him, and like you I'm looking to rebuild my social circle, because as I'm sure you know, when you get into a relationship, it does cost you a lot of friends unfortunately, you just drift apart.

What I'm trying to say, is don't look to the internet because the chances of finding a friend in the flesh is very small, get out, go to the boozer, join a club.. just get out and meet people.

Good luck.