How are you today?

[archubbycub]

Maybe he's afraid you'll blow his cover (with his dad), if there is something he's concealing from his dad. Probably it's best if you let him get on with his business with his dad. You can maybe text him a couple of times to let him know you're thinking of him.

What's all this about you two drifting apart? Where did you get this impression? Have you talked it over with him?

Neither his mom nor his dad knows he's gay, though I think his mom suspects. And I respect the fact that he wants to tell them when he's ready. God knows I didn't get that privilege with my parents. And I know it's been a very hectic and tiring week for him, but I would like to see him, if only for a couple of hours so we can talk.

And as far as us drifting apart, I think a lot of it stems from the fact that the little bit we have talked he's been so distant and hurried. Maybe it's me, I don't know, but it just doesn't feel the same. I'm hoping that now that my ex wife is finally moved out we'll have sometime to be together, but I'm just not sure.