01-19-2013, 11:09 AM
Mrmatty77 Wrote:What were you hoping would happen? Do you like said co-worker?Well I like the guy and I was hoping he would reciprocate. If you have the time read the Missed Opportunity thread in the Relationships section for some background.
Otherwise here's the condensed version. I"m deep in the closet and none of my current friends and family know I'm gay. I like a guy at work but we don't talk much. When we finally got to talk he made some great pro-homosexual comments but I didn't let him know I was gay and I've been hating myself for it over the last few days. Today I let him know I'm gay and was wondering if he wanted to hang out. He says hanging out would be cool but he's not gay.
At least I'm not hating myself now and I know an intimate relationship isn't going to happen. Younger me would never have said anything and always wondered.