06-26-2013, 06:32 PM
I'm so not in a good mood right now! The BF and I are on the verge of having an argument. He says I never buy him anything or surprise him with a gift. And quite honestly I would love to be able to do that more, but money is really tight for me right now and he knows that. And him saying that makes me feel like he thinks I don't love him or that the little things I do for him like cleaning up the house, or rubbing his back, little gestures to show him how much I love and appreciate him aren't good enough for him.
He in turn says that when I mention something I want or would like I have he feels like he's second best in my life. But honestly when I say there's something I want or point out something I like to have that's all I'm doing is pointing it out. I'm not saying I want him to run out and buy for me right away or that if he doesn't buy me something he doesn't love me. I'm just trying to say, "Maybe someday when we can afford it."
He in turn says that when I mention something I want or would like I have he feels like he's second best in my life. But honestly when I say there's something I want or point out something I like to have that's all I'm doing is pointing it out. I'm not saying I want him to run out and buy for me right away or that if he doesn't buy me something he doesn't love me. I'm just trying to say, "Maybe someday when we can afford it."
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