02-23-2014, 11:35 AM
Well Luke... I guess that one is up to you.
However I warn you most people don't like surprises, and bringing home a Boyfriend is going to be a very awkward moment for the family.
For one thing it may be construed as manipulative, after all you spring this on them in front of a stranger, most family don't all break out in whatever displays of surprise, greif, whatever will happen in front of strangers.
So between not saying anything now and bringing a BF home (which will happen, happens to the worst and best of us), you are going to need to pull the family aside and give them a heads up.
However I warn you most people don't like surprises, and bringing home a Boyfriend is going to be a very awkward moment for the family.
For one thing it may be construed as manipulative, after all you spring this on them in front of a stranger, most family don't all break out in whatever displays of surprise, greif, whatever will happen in front of strangers.
So between not saying anything now and bringing a BF home (which will happen, happens to the worst and best of us), you are going to need to pull the family aside and give them a heads up.