08-05-2014, 08:35 AM
I understand your concern about "limiting your options" and what it boils down to is..... is your fetish a need? Is it something you -have to- have in a relationship?
If so... then your options are already limited.
That said? When Gideon and I met and started seeing each other, I didn't have a -clue- about D/s... or the appeal of the "take down". These are things that Gideon introduced into our relationship from the start in subtle ways that grew into where we are today.
There's no reason you can't do the same with your fetishes.
If so... then your options are already limited.
That said? When Gideon and I met and started seeing each other, I didn't have a -clue- about D/s... or the appeal of the "take down". These are things that Gideon introduced into our relationship from the start in subtle ways that grew into where we are today.
There's no reason you can't do the same with your fetishes.