09-11-2014, 05:13 PM
Probably going to sound like the cold, unsympathetic jerk here, but since there are many here that excel at the well-laid out, compassion-filled advice posts, there are times when some of these also call for something from the other side- the reality check, 'lighten up Morrissey' post. I guess the person to give that advice will have to be me.
Dude, you had a crush. You came to know his better and your feelings changed. That's the way it goes most of the time. You are going to have many of them in life and almost all of them are going to pass with time and familiarity with the person. This isn't that big of deal. In the search for love and companionship in life, if you worry this much about the minor incidents enough to make an anonymous thread, you are never going to make it through the actual dating and love-life world, the place where the real heartache and worry sometimes occurs.
Dude, you had a crush. You came to know his better and your feelings changed. That's the way it goes most of the time. You are going to have many of them in life and almost all of them are going to pass with time and familiarity with the person. This isn't that big of deal. In the search for love and companionship in life, if you worry this much about the minor incidents enough to make an anonymous thread, you are never going to make it through the actual dating and love-life world, the place where the real heartache and worry sometimes occurs.
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