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Sounds like she was seeking protection by sitting next to someone so that her boyfriend could not abuse her. The idea being that he was too much of a coward to act p in front of someone else. A good example of bullies being cowards.

Besides, we all know Cridders is a hunky muscle man and quite intimidating.

I did kind of get that impression too LJay . He was speaking quite aggressively towards her, so I wouldn't be surprised. If that is what she was doing, I fear she didn't make things any better for herself later on

As for the second part...

Thank you Cridders, I appreciate that and true. Better sooner than later. Basically what happened was we had been talking all day yesterday, and before I went to bed around 2AM being a night owl I sent him a text to wish him as restful a night's sleep as possible with his loss of a family member, and I woke up today to find his reply which he sent at 3:28AM. He said he was leaving a club extremely high and drunk, and basically told me to step off he was sleeping with an ex. I know I'm not much to look at, and I'm nothing but I would never treat someone like that or cheat. Ironic part is he text's me today like nothing happened, like I'm an idiot. lol Thanks again though for listening Cridders, and for the help.

No worries, any time. But gawd, what a twat to put it mildly. You are well shot of him!

And less of the "I'm nothing" talk. That's bollocks