04-02-2016, 06:02 PM
LJay Wrote:@ starlight Not that you should not stay in control while drinking but this might just be a clue to the cause of some of your continual problems. You were buzzed and in a club and were able to slough off criticism, carry on somewhat outlandishly with the guy at the urinal and actually strike up a conversation with a stranger and get a hug out of it. Sounds like you did all right. IMPORTANT: Do not make alcohol your enabler.l Just let the episode teach you that relaxing a bit might be good for you.
In person i am actually pretty ok with people, its all whats internal thats hard! Cheers for your input though oh and the guy i go out with is old enough be my dad haha but we have a good partnership at work so he looks out for me and i him.