08-19-2016, 04:50 PM
Quote:Should I tell him I would consider it in a few years? I don't want to loose him
Has he given you any reason to believe that you will lose him if you said no to a threesome? According to your question he says he'll understand if you don't want to. Seems that you may be overthinking this abit.
You should just tell him the truth about how you feel and trust him to be mature and sensible about it.