10-29-2016, 02:59 PM
Well, ok.
After getting some rest all is good but man this week was off-putting.
One of my uncles died last weekend and cue us going to the funeral. But my aunt was his second wife and the daugthers he had with the first one showed up......I had never met them in my life, so I knew things weren't ok between them. All was...fine until it came the time to bury him and say a few words and then they spent a good 15 minutes saying basically "you were an awful dad and a shitty person but we forgive you"....the look on my aunt's face...you could tell she wasn't happy, so she in turned said yes he was flawed, but kept me happy for 24 years. And that she had inf act nagged him to reunite with his old family....
So all was awkward and bit sad and...inappropriate. I don't think it's ok to vent your furstrations on someone's funeral. Do that in your own home or just don't show up in the first place. That also sends quite a message but avoids all the awkwardness.
My sister and I were "let's get the hell out of here".
I hate family drama and I hate the moments in which it chooses to appear.
Then of course, work. The boss is gone to Barcelona (again...hmm) but left a large pile of work to do hahaha D:
Oh well I finished it....ish and finsihed some reports last night, will do more over the course of the weekend.
After getting some rest all is good but man this week was off-putting.
One of my uncles died last weekend and cue us going to the funeral. But my aunt was his second wife and the daugthers he had with the first one showed up......I had never met them in my life, so I knew things weren't ok between them. All was...fine until it came the time to bury him and say a few words and then they spent a good 15 minutes saying basically "you were an awful dad and a shitty person but we forgive you"....the look on my aunt's face...you could tell she wasn't happy, so she in turned said yes he was flawed, but kept me happy for 24 years. And that she had inf act nagged him to reunite with his old family....
So all was awkward and bit sad and...inappropriate. I don't think it's ok to vent your furstrations on someone's funeral. Do that in your own home or just don't show up in the first place. That also sends quite a message but avoids all the awkwardness.
My sister and I were "let's get the hell out of here".
I hate family drama and I hate the moments in which it chooses to appear.
Then of course, work. The boss is gone to Barcelona (again...hmm) but left a large pile of work to do hahaha D:
Oh well I finished it....ish and finsihed some reports last night, will do more over the course of the weekend.