I love a co-worker and don't know what to do.

[matty7]

well you dont work together now so why not tell him your gay , and ask if he is too - the worst response will be no response at all and he stops messaging you , if your ok with that risk then just tell him - every other reply will be better , even if its just to say hes not gay but happy top be friends , but theirs always that chance he feels the same