I love a co-worker and don't know what to do.

[RomanticMan]

Well if the text messages are would be called "elevator talk" which would be like "how are you?" "how's the weather?" type stuff, that does get boring. There does need to be more meaningful conversation regardless of whether it is a friendship or something else. What sort of things do you talk about? Do you get any vibe that something has changed?

My thoughts are probably to keep the status quo. Let him divulge that he is gay and it needs to be beyond a shadow of a doubt and I would like @"CodyH" 's said take some caution. I don't know if it is common for random people to go around outing suspected gay people in your country but if it is a thing be careful. People know no limits. Unless you want to roll the dice that is.

we mostly send things we see on social media. Also, we talk about some career plans etc... We check house prices, thats his hobby indeed. I dont like it much haha. but he's going to move into another city and he checks some houses in those places. We share things we like on Netflix. outing a suspected gay guy happens but i dont know if it's rare or many times happened.

Whats changed is... he texted more befroe but now he's texting rarely for the last 2 days.