Never! No Chance!

[calgor]

Also just because you don't tell, doesn't mean people around you don't make their own conclusions. Don't think they're dumb. I'm not sure how old you are. If you're young, then it's not that noticeable yet and you might pull it off. But if you're 40+ and you're not married and nobody has ever seen you with a partner of the opposite gender, then your family and friends most likely do understand and know that there's a reason behind it.

This is so true. I never said the words I'm gay to anyone until I was close to 50. I can't remember anyone being surprised. As you said when you've never been married and, in my case, have not dated a woman in 25 years(back when I was trying to convince myself I could be straight)it doesn't leave much to the imagination.