How are you today?

[Jay]

Smile and befriend them! You don't need to flirt and get into a relationship with every guy you meet you know.

Darn it. There goes my orgy idea. :biggrin: I kid, TuxSky.

@Jay: Friend first and then anything else latter. There will be never enough friendship so why do you hesitate? It does not matter if they have a crush on you or not. I think that everything should start with a friendship first. Start by " Hey, how are you doing man?" "Do you work here?"

Conechvn, I never have problem making friends with anyone except with guys that I feel like I 'have connection with'. I tend to take few steps back due to my insecurity (I'm in the process of overcoming it). I'm working on my social skills to confront 'these guys'. I think it's going to take some time but I'll do my best to overcome the problem.

What was he whistling? If it was a dog call, continue to ignore (but consider buying him a dog lead); if it was a wolf whistle, grin from ear to ear and sashay in the campest fashion allowable; if it was a tune you know, improvise a counter melody and start dancing.

Lol Marshlander. The first whistle that I received from him was a standard whistle (Exactly like how a guy whistles to a girl). The next whistles were more melodically. He equips his whistle with a cheeky smile.

There was this one time when I was waiting to cross a road. He popped out from nowhere and stood beside me. He kept staring at me and as a result, I became panic a bit. I tried to act normal as possible and acted like I didn't notice his stares. Now to think of it I sound like an as* a bit for being unfriendly to him.

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Okay well this morning, I chatted with my first crush. We talked and I guiltily couldn't help to look at his chest. He is 6ft tall and I'm 5ft. Deep down I was like, "Holy, he has hairy pecs ..." I'm ashamed of myself. *Facepalm* I tried my best to stop looking at his chest. I really did.

Now on to his friend who winked at me yesterday. I bumped into both of them this evening in a shopping mall nearby to our office building. They were walking opposite direction. I looked at his friend and voila, he smiled and then he winked at me. I gave him the goofiest smile that I could ever give. He's 6ft tall as well.

I've actually talked to him before. Twice.

First time was in a cafe. My first crush, him and I were waiting for our orders. So whilst waiting, we chatted together. That was when my first crush asked me about my bow tie, which melted me.

Second time was in an elevator. It was only him and I in the elevator. I thought it would be awkward not to talk to him as I've chatted with him before. So I opened a conversation with him. I found out where he comes from. But uh, I forgot to ask his name.

In conclusion, today has been an awesome day. I went home with a big smile on my face.

Personally I have learned a good lesson from all these. I've learned that I have been underestimating myself. Stupid as it may sound, I really thought that my injured leg (My left leg bends due to an accident) would reduce my chances to attract guys. I admit, it was a shallow thought. I'm still trying to overcome this insecurity but I believe I will defeat it.

today was goood :]
i might have got my job i wanted

going for a interview/training tomorrow
wish me luck

Sorry for the late reply but I wish you the best of luck Snow. Good luck!