10-05-2016, 07:53 PM
Any suggestions on how to address this issue? We've been dating 5 months now and she's ALWAYS around. She leaves presents for him with love notes, buys him flowers, dictates everything we do, takes pics of him sleeping, posts weird shit online like "date night" and uses hashtags like "soylnates, cute boys, oyr love rubs deep" kisses him on the lips in public if we buy her a drink or something. I've made comments before but they typically go unacknowledged. I can't tell if he's well aware that her behavior is inappropriate or if he's totally blind to it. it was semi-bearable when they had separate apartments but they just got a place together so I'm getting ZERO alone time. They've both lost good friends when they complained about how much time they spend together so I'm afraid of making it an issue. I don't want to be that boyfriend who "comes between" him and his bestie. (I shouldn't have to. There should be enough room for me but this bitches grip is TIGHT) they are both new to the city after moving from a small town so they really only have each other. He's had past relationships but I'm not sure how she factored in. Did I sign up for a package deal? Ultimately at the end of the day I'm the one holding him at night and not her. Do I just roll my eyes and look the other way or what? There's some serious underlying.....shit going on. We've also never even had sex but that's a totally different post! I'm in Seattle and all my friends are on the east coast. I need hellllp!