Did anyone realize they were gay later than 20?

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Granted my feelings for women were legitimate and sincere, I can't even imagine being with one at this point. It is sorta like a switch was turned off(or on) and that whole idea of a raising a family as a heterosexual is just so....unappealing and offputting. I havent been with a guy yet, but I feel so much deeper of a connection when I see an attractive guy on TV or when I am out with friends than I ever did with a woman.

I've carefully read and re-read your reply, I think I understand what you are trying to say, but I'd like to make sure. Although your feelings towards women were real they weren't the same as the feelings you have now towards men. Is that fair?

If so then I retract my suggestion about things being more complicated than you simply being gay.