12-29-2011, 03:58 PM
Thanks everyone, I liked all the ideas like the "totally not gay discount" from a friend who works at a shoe store! The Christmas gift exchange from a very generous co-worker, Santa, etc.
Thanks for the support too.
However East, I don't understand how coming out to these two homophobic twats (as someone put it nicely) would be a gift to myself? I thought that coming out felt good when you did it to people who were important to you and/or you cared about, so you could stop living a lie. All my friends know the truth, as do even most of my acquaintances, so do the family members that I love (I have a small family, so this included just a few people). I really don't care much for these two idiots, they barely pay me attention except to bring me down and I don't see how giving them more ammunition will make me happier.
Thanks for the support too.
However East, I don't understand how coming out to these two homophobic twats (as someone put it nicely) would be a gift to myself? I thought that coming out felt good when you did it to people who were important to you and/or you cared about, so you could stop living a lie. All my friends know the truth, as do even most of my acquaintances, so do the family members that I love (I have a small family, so this included just a few people). I really don't care much for these two idiots, they barely pay me attention except to bring me down and I don't see how giving them more ammunition will make me happier.