Tricky Situation

[Foxy]

I can't remember how long ago my initial thread on my situation with my mum was but this is the most recent 'progress' of it.

This would relate to anyone else who has gone through the process of coming out to difficult parents. I am talking in this particular case about mothers. My mum has been so difficult about it and she refuses to meet my girlfriend Kate at all. If I talk about my sexuality in any way, shape or form, even just a mere suggestion she changes the subject and her overall response to it has been to turn away and ignore it. It even got to the point where she was trying to arrange a date with a boy for me, without my knowing. Please help, what should I do? How should I approach talking to her? I am currently walking on eggshells and have not mentioned or suggested it to her in any way. But it's getting more and more difficult for me because my girlfriend and I are engaged. I want to be happy, and I am, but I feel a part of me is being held back by my mum's complete stubborness if I can call it that. It's a tricky situation which I could do with some help on. :confused:

Any advice?