08-09-2012, 10:10 PM
LoveOnTheRocks Wrote:... That was the hardest thing ever to explain to her and especially when you have your pants around your ankles. That pretty much sealed the deal right there and I knew I'd never see him again but at the end of it all I still got my goodbye kiss. The thing with this is I don't know how to get over him completely since I always have nightmere's about him. And how do I ever love my mom again when she did that? All I feel for her is emptiness. I just need advice on this considering it kills me. So please help. And sorry it turned out to be that long. Thanks.:confused:-you are gay and you will always look for the boys, straight boys look for the ladies. Or what ever your sex preference is. Would the "explanation" be easier if your were straight with a girl? Straight bi or gay tell her its not going to change. Tell her you are still the same person and love her very much. I dont see how you could say all this in the act with your pants down. Setup a calmer time and talk to your mother. No threats, just an understanding between you two; what are the rules for bringing a date home gay or straight? Your are 16 and should be dating, hope it would not have to be on the down lo.
-not a lot of information in your post but call text your bf back and apologize the situation. Set up a proper date with him along the lies of the house rules and get on with your lives where it left off.