08-10-2012, 08:07 AM
Aw, pity you deleted your account. :/
Anyways, I think there's nothing wrong with wanting to try, no matter in what way, if you want to be controlled then great. But you have a girlfriend and that would be cheating. Have you talked to her about it? Maybe she will be understanding and will have no problem with you trying. If that happens and you actually talk to a guy about having sex with them, make sure you're clear about what you want and make sure you can trust them - especially since you want it more rough. If the guy is not careful enough, you could be left quite traumatized.
Anyways, I think there's nothing wrong with wanting to try, no matter in what way, if you want to be controlled then great. But you have a girlfriend and that would be cheating. Have you talked to her about it? Maybe she will be understanding and will have no problem with you trying. If that happens and you actually talk to a guy about having sex with them, make sure you're clear about what you want and make sure you can trust them - especially since you want it more rough. If the guy is not careful enough, you could be left quite traumatized.