08-10-2012, 03:25 PM
It's VERY common for a guy who's curious about being with a man to want to be in a "submissive" role because it gives them the justification of "they made me do it."
It's kinda like guys who ONLY have m2m contact if a woman is present - it allows them to retain some measure of their masculinity while acting out a sexual fantasy or desire.
Whether he meets these guys or not, the fact that he's made moves toward meeting a guy sexually just really means its only a matter of time before he actually does it. And i'm guessing that while he has a GF, his porn of choice is gay/bi porn and he thinks about m2m sex ALL THE TIME!
Hopefully he'll re-create his account and update us.
It's kinda like guys who ONLY have m2m contact if a woman is present - it allows them to retain some measure of their masculinity while acting out a sexual fantasy or desire.
Whether he meets these guys or not, the fact that he's made moves toward meeting a guy sexually just really means its only a matter of time before he actually does it. And i'm guessing that while he has a GF, his porn of choice is gay/bi porn and he thinks about m2m sex ALL THE TIME!
Hopefully he'll re-create his account and update us.
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