08-16-2012, 11:03 AM
Because women are less than men, and they are expected to make bad choices. We all know this son, After all the whole reason why mankind is not in the garden right now is because a woman made a bad choice and then tempted Adam.:tongue:
While few people admit to this philosophy of woman's place, the truth is that genderfication - the separation of the expectations of a person based on what does or does not hang between the legs - is hard wired into our traditional society, our whole civilization is founded on certain notions of what the differences between men and women are. Such as little girls are Pink and little boys are blue. Boys get sports equipment, girls get the easy bake oven.
Women only really got liberated in the 1970's and that was after being the slaves of man for oh ten thousand years.
For those ten thousand years (that we know of, its possibly a lot more), our whole civilization has evolved with certain notions about what it is to be a woman and what it is to be a man. Women are expected to be 'soft' (emotionally speaking) and may be a bit too close. But hey, nearly every straight man dreams of a three way with two hot babes - and lesbians only need a good enough man to make that dream come true. :tongue:
Women are still cast as the weaker sex, the fair sex, the gender who needs to be protected, cared for. Sure no one comes out and says 'Woman shut the pie whole and listen to your man.' anymore, but the behaviors, the expectations are still there for these male dominating female behaviors.
Men are not supposed to be soft. Everybody knows that if you are gay you are a sissy - sissy means less than a man - you are a girl. Doesn't matter if you stand 6'1" tall and weigh 250 pounds of pure muscle, can throw down with the best of them, hunt, work on cars, are hung like a horse - if you are a gay you are a sissy. End of story.
Real men ain't pansys, sissys, girly-girls, whatever other effeminate sounding word you can throw out there. The idea that a man can accept or give sex with/to another man emasculates common decent 'real' men.
Please to note, the common complaint about gays is that they all are bottoms (get their fudge packed) and that they all perform anal sex. This strikes a cord of the female passive role where a man is inserting into you. No one every relates 'gay' with a masculine top except people who are LGBT. No one seems to care that the majority of gay males actually prefer oral sex over anal - the assumptions remain strong that gay=anal=female.
Women don't have to struggle with this whole 'have to be a man no matter what' idiotology, erm, ideology and the myth-conceptions of what being a 'real man' is all about.
While your calendar might read 2012, I fear that socially our species is stuck in or around 1612 when it comes to gender roles and sexuality.
While few people admit to this philosophy of woman's place, the truth is that genderfication - the separation of the expectations of a person based on what does or does not hang between the legs - is hard wired into our traditional society, our whole civilization is founded on certain notions of what the differences between men and women are. Such as little girls are Pink and little boys are blue. Boys get sports equipment, girls get the easy bake oven.
Women only really got liberated in the 1970's and that was after being the slaves of man for oh ten thousand years.
For those ten thousand years (that we know of, its possibly a lot more), our whole civilization has evolved with certain notions about what it is to be a woman and what it is to be a man. Women are expected to be 'soft' (emotionally speaking) and may be a bit too close. But hey, nearly every straight man dreams of a three way with two hot babes - and lesbians only need a good enough man to make that dream come true. :tongue:
Women are still cast as the weaker sex, the fair sex, the gender who needs to be protected, cared for. Sure no one comes out and says 'Woman shut the pie whole and listen to your man.' anymore, but the behaviors, the expectations are still there for these male dominating female behaviors.
Men are not supposed to be soft. Everybody knows that if you are gay you are a sissy - sissy means less than a man - you are a girl. Doesn't matter if you stand 6'1" tall and weigh 250 pounds of pure muscle, can throw down with the best of them, hunt, work on cars, are hung like a horse - if you are a gay you are a sissy. End of story.
Real men ain't pansys, sissys, girly-girls, whatever other effeminate sounding word you can throw out there. The idea that a man can accept or give sex with/to another man emasculates common decent 'real' men.
Please to note, the common complaint about gays is that they all are bottoms (get their fudge packed) and that they all perform anal sex. This strikes a cord of the female passive role where a man is inserting into you. No one every relates 'gay' with a masculine top except people who are LGBT. No one seems to care that the majority of gay males actually prefer oral sex over anal - the assumptions remain strong that gay=anal=female.
Women don't have to struggle with this whole 'have to be a man no matter what' idiotology, erm, ideology and the myth-conceptions of what being a 'real man' is all about.
While your calendar might read 2012, I fear that socially our species is stuck in or around 1612 when it comes to gender roles and sexuality.
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