08-16-2012, 01:57 PM
This has always been a double-standard that got under my skin too.....and after 20 years of on-and-off chats with str8 guys winto F/F porn, i got my answer - with F/F sex, there's no real Dom/Sub dynamic. If women want penetration, they have to use a toy - and a toy isn't a penis - so the sexual "roles" aren't compromised like they are with M/M sex.
you see, alot of str8 men have a big problem getting their heads around the concept of "recieving" during sex. They see the bottom as taking a feminine role - something that goes against millions of years of genetic coding! With F/F sex, it's softer, and does not conflict with their masculinity!
this can be seen at play with bi sex movies. Find a str8 buddy and show him a F/F scene and then show a scene with two M/F couples who end up going M/M and F/F - the str8 guy will avert his eyes when the camera shows the bi/gay male sex and will focus on the 2 women together!
It's a sexual "role" issue and something that has been, and will be, around for a long time. It sucks, but yes, it is reality.
you see, alot of str8 men have a big problem getting their heads around the concept of "recieving" during sex. They see the bottom as taking a feminine role - something that goes against millions of years of genetic coding! With F/F sex, it's softer, and does not conflict with their masculinity!
this can be seen at play with bi sex movies. Find a str8 buddy and show him a F/F scene and then show a scene with two M/F couples who end up going M/M and F/F - the str8 guy will avert his eyes when the camera shows the bi/gay male sex and will focus on the 2 women together!
It's a sexual "role" issue and something that has been, and will be, around for a long time. It sucks, but yes, it is reality.
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