don't call me insane again .... just need a serious advice

[mihai]

I never called you insane. I did, however, imply your an alcoholic on more than one occasion.

Every single time you have a 'problem post' alcohol comes into the picture.

Alcohol clouds one's judgement. One glass of wine, one glass with vodka, one ale or one beer is enough to loosen a person up and they start doing things that they do not do when cold stone sober.

Pot also loosens people up.

You bought a vodka because you were bored. You didn't go BACK to the bar - implying you were at the bar to begin with.

I think its going to be real hard to determine who you really are as long as you have alcohol in the bloodstream, or Tetrahydrocannabinol (THC, the active ingredient in pot).

Just because he is 33 doesn't mean you are into older men. I have no idea how good looking of a 33 year old you were dealing with. A lot of guys and gals do not really age that much between 20 and 40. Many act years and decades younger, many look years and decades younger.

Getting kissed by a (one, singular) man regardless of his age doesn't set a pattern for life. It could have been a fluke, it could have been he was just a really hot 33 year old man, it could have been too much vodka in the system.

Now if you find yourself constantly falling for 'older' men then yes you are into older men. If its a one off thing or varies depending on the person, then there are other things you are falling for, not age.

Had he not mentioned his age, would you have considered him 'old'? Most likely not. Its not until he tells you a number that the number became an issue.

Well i am telling the story how it happened and stuff. and yes i like vodka and wine , like you probably like beer; that doesn't means i get drunk or don't know what i am doing or i stop thinking lol .
And the really sad part is that you can judge me just by reading my poasts. I am so not you think i am. You need to acsually meet a person to understand,the writing isn't the same thing as speacking and using the face mimic, right? So though luck, i apreaciate you acsualy wasting your time reading my thread and every single time you keep pointing the boose i drank, can you just once try to see the problem i need a answer to without pointing the boose? Thx!