08-12-2012, 06:19 AM
It sounds like you're gay. It also sounds like your feelings of shame and disgust with yourself started to diminish even before you finished asking for advice. It's obvious you've been thinking about this a lot and your head seems to be going in the right direction.
Sorry I can't provide much on the dating thing. I met my partner online on a website mostly dedicated to hookups and dirty old men. I found a diamond in the rough while entertaining myself.
Life ain't over at 34! It took me until I was 35 to find my guy and took him till he was 62!
You could volunteer at the Denver pride festival/parade and probably meet a bunch of people. Check in at your local LGBT center too. You never know. Or the bar scene. Denver's pretty progressive from what I hear so there could be someone like minded out there waiting for you.
Welcome to GS and good luck!
Sorry I can't provide much on the dating thing. I met my partner online on a website mostly dedicated to hookups and dirty old men. I found a diamond in the rough while entertaining myself.
Life ain't over at 34! It took me until I was 35 to find my guy and took him till he was 62!
You could volunteer at the Denver pride festival/parade and probably meet a bunch of people. Check in at your local LGBT center too. You never know. Or the bar scene. Denver's pretty progressive from what I hear so there could be someone like minded out there waiting for you.
Welcome to GS and good luck!