New and need your advice

[avidcyclistMTB]

Just an addition to LateBloomer and my comments about internet dating. Get a phone number and talk to him. If he's not willing to talk to you then he probably isn't worth it. I know a lot of people are reluctant to give out a number, but you can reassure him that if it doesn't work out between you the number is lost and forgotten. There is an element of danger there but I too have met some really great guys on the internet. No real bad experience. A couple of lackluster ones, but I always talked to them first. You can guage a lot from talking to someone.