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[LateBloomer]

Thanks Latebloomer. I hear you about the experience thing. I wasn't completely honest. I have visited a gay nightclub in the last few months and have met some people. I haven't hooked up with anyone but I ended up kissing three guys, on separate nights. One guy was great and the other two pretty much inhaled my face. Based on that experience, I don't like when some guy swallows up my face when he's kissing me. So experience is good. I'm still not sure about the hook up thing. I think I would do better with getting to know someone a little bit before anything happened. Sure, I get it that may not meet a keeper right away, but I also have standards. I'm not going to lie, I am a man and if a really hot guy wanted to get with me for the night, it would not be easy to say no or maybe wouldn't be able to so say no. Ha ha. So experimentation is on my list, but I'm not giving up on getting to know someone either.

Ok good. I'm glad to hear you're out there "playing the field".



And BELIEVE ME. I can't stand having a vacuum cleaner on my face either.

Bottom line, you're out there meeting guys at YOUR OWN pace, and that is the most important thing--not that you do it my way.

Good luck,
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