08-15-2012, 04:49 PM
QueenOdi Wrote:First off, I really like your Avatar picture, it's just so cute <3 .
^ - That's how you know I'm gay
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But I believe the only true way is to ask them, but you can also try what others here have stated. I find that noticing signs that make it obvious, doesn't always help, so maybe you can just make friends with people.
Maybe someone else who is wondering the same thing, may notice you. Sometimes you also have to allow yourself to be available to people who may be interested in you.
It's easier to have someone else be the one you're curious about or for them to be the "Attracter" and you the "Attractee" who only has to look, while they have to be available/looked at.
It takes two to Tango :biggrin: .
Thank you for your appreciation and so nice a suggestion! As you put it, sometimes it matters to make myself available to people who are interested in me. Yet during my high school life, almost all the boys who are interested in me are hardly doing that out of a true feeling for me. Some, even worse, just want to find out whether I'm gay or not!
Sometimes I even doubt the frienships with some other boys. Now, I take such signs more as a polite fun, not seriously as before.