How to identify a gay man?

[Slim]

Here we wear the "one ear-ring" in/since the 80th..... but very fast many males had earrings...some right...some left .... now I have both sides ... but it says nothing.... my neighbour...straight... wears 4 on every side....
For many people here its unimportant of others think that they are maybe gay .... or straight....

4!!!Wow, getting ears pierced really hurts, doesn't it? I've never tried that...
Well, perhaps in the western world, gays are more likely to be accepted. But in China, especially in the rural areas, gays are still a highly sensitive topic.:frown: