08-17-2012, 09:35 AM
Being single didn't bother me because I had so many other interests and was happy with my social life without a significant other. So I'd guess find something that interests you to occupy you with and have patience. With luck your new hobby or interests might also help you meet someone who has more of a connection with you than a desire to jump your bones.
And I think if I were to seriously look for a guy who wasn't just into sex I'd stay away from bars and computers, or at least approach those meat markets with extreme caution (which of course can get you to seem stuck up, or even worse, a "challenge" so that guys will try to con & seduce you for the bragging rights to other guys). I think friends would be much better at setting me up with someone...though those can lead to the dreaded blind date.
And I think if I were to seriously look for a guy who wasn't just into sex I'd stay away from bars and computers, or at least approach those meat markets with extreme caution (which of course can get you to seem stuck up, or even worse, a "challenge" so that guys will try to con & seduce you for the bragging rights to other guys). I think friends would be much better at setting me up with someone...though those can lead to the dreaded blind date.
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