08-17-2012, 04:43 PM
fr0sty Wrote:So I'm not sure about everyone else, but I feel like finding a guy is the hardest thing I will ever do. I'm a decent looking guy, albeit a little heavy, but I'm intelligent, I have a great job, I"m very mature, and I'm completely self sufficient....so why is it so hard to find a guy who is interested in ME and not just sex?
Has anyone else ever felt like this? sorta..except that I've never even met anyone .lol. I haven't and won't do the online dating/hookup thing. Never been to a gay bar/club (nothing close plus I'd be too afraid to go in anyway)
How does one find a guy who is interested in more than sex? no idea on finding a guy...
How do you continue to feel good about yourself when its so difficult finding someone? A boyfriend might be nice, but I'm perfectly fine remaining single (i should probably give up even thinking about it when i hit 40 :eek: later this year...)