Have you ever felt unlucky in love?

[Blue]

I don't hide that I'm gay, but it isn't usually the first conversation topic when I meet a new person either. I don't want one night stands, friend sex, etc... I want a relationship. To me we'd have to be friends and share enough of the same interests and activities before I'd consider a relationship, and of course he would need to be gay LOL.

When I meet someone new, I don't even mention sexuality until I get to know them as a friend. I don't hide that I'm gay, but I don't come right out and say it either. If he does, I make it clear that I am not looking for friend sex or one night stands at all.

Needless to say, that leads to a lot of solo with my favorite fantasy or cybering with friends that are into that but, that's fine with me. It's safe, healthy and, when I do hook up, it won't be just for the sex.