Have you ever felt unlucky in love?

[fr0sty]

Has anyone else ever felt like this? sorta..except that I've never even met anyone .lol. I haven't and won't do the online dating/hookup thing. Never been to a gay bar/club (nothing close plus I'd be too afraid to go in anyway)

How does one find a guy who is interested in more than sex? no idea on finding a guy...

How do you continue to feel good about yourself when its so difficult finding someone? A boyfriend might be nice, but I'm perfectly fine remaining single (i should probably give up even thinking about it when i hit 40 :eek: later this year...)

I dont think you should feel like turning 40 would stop you from finding something worth while. The word on the street is that there is someone out there for everybody! Its just such a process digging through all the b.s. to find that someone...its easier for some than others. I assume, then, that we are the others, lol.

What makes you afraid to go inside of a gay establishment? I used to feel similar, but then you realize that the only thing to be afraid of is being seen....and you have just as much right to be seen as everyone else, right? You seem like a pretty interesting guy, and i'm sure you've got a lot to share/give. Try not to rob yourself of that opportunity!mile: