Think my guy is playing games on me -- need input

[avidcyclistMTB]

adaidas, sounds to me like he's playing games. He won't come out and admit what and who he is, by the sounds of it.

He has admitted that he is not committed to your relationship. It sounds to me like you are looking for a little more commitment. Your questions are a little bit ambiguous, such as "...how can he live a life like this" and "Has anyone else had a guy like this." Are you really asking what the end result might be.

I think you need to ask yourself what you are wanting out of this relationship as it seems you are not getting it. If it's commitment from one man, then he's basically told you that's not happening and you should move on. You don't specifically mention this, but the things that you mention being odd about him seem to indicate that you'd like his full attention rather than share it in which case, he's not for you.

As for "13"??? I think he's outright lying to you about what that means and if he's got a 13" dick and you have yet to verify that then you should run away!!! :eek:

Good luck and welcome to GaySpeak. Figure out what YOU want and your questions should be answered.