Think my guy is playing games on me -- need input

[Blue]

First, decide what YOU want in a relationship. Second don't fear being single. Now step back and look at what you have with this guy as objectively as you can. Does he even come close to being and, giving you what you want? Do you really want to be with him? Can you accept all of the things you are bringing up here, and the rest of the thinks that are less than ideal to you about him?

Just be honest with you and do what's best for you because you being unhappy is never going to lead to a good relationship.